ImprovementSummaries: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Hello friends...

It happens to us often that we watch any number of motivational videos. Our motivation and excitement level is over after a time. And in the end, we start doing what we are used to doing. Most people are compelled by their habits and work according to their habits, no matter how much they may be understood.

In the right way, we become such a human being that we find it very difficult to change our habits and this causes us to succeed and fail.

So, first of all, we should know which of our habits is right which will help us to succeed and which habit is wrong which we need to change.

There are some habits which will help us to change our wrong habits: -

1. Be Proactive: - To understand this, we take an example -

As a cockroach sits on the dress of a woman in a restaurant, the woman is terrified to see that cockroach and starts screaming loudly, she tries to throw that cockroach away with both hands. When that woman's hand falls, he jumps up and falls on another woman, then that woman also starts panicking and behaving like the first woman. Seeing this, a waiter standing nearby goes to help them, and in throwing it, the cockroach now sits on top of the waiter's shirt, but instead of shouting and panicking the waiter observes the walk of the cockroach in his shirt and then he Holds the cockroach and throws it out of the restaurant.

So here those two women were reactive because both those women reacted while the waiter was proactive, the waiter took the solution with thinking and took the right action accordingly.

What is the difference between reactive and proactive people?

Reactive people blame others for everything, such people give their feelings or control to others as- they are making me angry, their country is not progressing because their government is not good, they cannot progress Because his Bose is not good, he is not happy because people are not good, and even if no one is accused of blaming him, these reactive people start blaming their own luck. Such people feel that it is not in their hands to control the situation or anything, all is a game of condition and luck, all the problems are coming from outside, but their thinking is their biggest problem.

Proactive people take care of themselves instead of giving their experiences or control to others, such people take 100% responsibility for their actions themselves, instead of cursing the situation and luck. And take the right action and correct it. They focus on the things that they can change, not those things which they cannot change.

2. Start with the end goal in mind (Start with the end goal in mind) -

We all know that one day we all have to die and we also know that we will only take our karma with us whether it is right or wrong. So we should take every step of our work thinking about our end.

For example- Suppose we went to someone's funeral, we hear a lot about that dead person there that the man was a true friend, responsible, honest, helping everyone. Then we should ask ourselves, will we be able to be true friends of anyone by the time this time comes, will we be able to do our work by then, will we be able to fulfill all our responsibilities, till then? Will we be able to be a good-hearted person who helps everyone?

Are we working right now to become what we are trying to get something we want to achieve?

After questioning ourselves, we should start working on all these as soon as possible.

3. Put first things first (Put first things first) - Do the necessary work first.

It happens to all of us and we say that

"Dude! What to do, there is no time !!!"

Then, whether we are wasting our time on the social sites, or are thinking unnecessarily, we will do this work today, then will not do it tomorrow, telling ourselves to avoid work. All this is one of our most common habits which wastes a lot of our important time and never lets us grow above an average human being.

So, in that case, we should do the same thing first which will take us very close to our goal. After that, we can give priority to our remaining work.

4. Think win-win - Do a work in which you can benefit yourself and others too.

For example - Suppose I have a pickle business and your papad business and you like my pickle and I like your papad so much, then I will send my customer to your shop for papad and you will send your customer to my shop.

This method is said to be thoughtful, this will keep the good friendship between both the shopkeeper and both will also benefit.

If we want our victory, then we should not think of losing someone else firstly, and even if that thought comes, then we have to convert that idea into mine and someone else's victory where both benefit. By doing this, our abundance mentality will develop.

5. Seek first and then understand (Seek first to understand and then to be understood)

We often listen to the words of people in such a way that we can give them some answers rather than understand them. Our focus remains only on what the frontman said, and not why the frontman said it. So we must first understand what someone is saying to us, only then we can understand his problem and solve it.

6. Synergy - This habit connects us with people, teaches them a lot of them. This teamwork also teaches us how to work with each other by keeping pace.

For example - Suppose you are a cricket player, then you cannot play for India alone, in such a situation, you have to increase the coordination with your team members and learn a lot from them and you can also teach something in which You are better.

7. Sharpen the saw - Here the edge in saws means the edge in our knowledge.

For example- Suppose a man was cutting a tree in the forest, he was trying to cut the tree from the saw but his tree was not cutting because there was no edge in his saw. Another man said to that man who tries to cut the tree "You should sharpen your saw first." Then the man who cut the tree told him that "it will take time".

We too make the same mistake, first of all, before doing any work, we think that it will take time, thinking that we don't do any work at all and keep avoiding it, whether it is to do fitness exercises, or read books, etc...

Just think if that man had already sharpened his saw, would not his tree have been cut down quickly? Due to which he was engaged in cutting the tree till now.

These habits make us effective if we follow these habits then we can make ourselves a great asset.